Tips for a Great First Date with Your Companion

Your first time with a companion can feel a bit awkward if you don't know what to expect. You're not on a normal date—you've paid, she's coming, and you both want the evening to go well. Here are some practical things that actually help.

Sort the plan before she leaves. If it's a dinner, we'll tell her the venue and roughly what kind of place it is so she dresses right. If it's your hotel room or your place, she needs the address, the room number if it's a hotel, and how to get in. Gate code, lobby instructions, "tell reception you're visiting Mr X"—whatever it is, give it to us so we can pass it on. Nothing kills the mood like her standing outside for twenty minutes because the guard wouldn't let her in or she couldn't find the flat. Get that right and half the stress is gone.

When she arrives, open the door. Don't make her knock five times while you're in the shower. Have the room or the house in decent shape—not spotless, but not a mess. A lot of guys keep some water or a drink ready. She might want to use the washroom first. Let her. Small stuff like that makes her feel okay, and when she's relaxed you'll both have a better time.

Talk to her. You don't have to perform. Ask her how the ride was, where she's from, what she does when she's not doing this—normal things. She'll talk back. She's used to filling silence and keeping things light. If you're nervous, say it. A lot of guys are. She won't mind. She'd rather you say "I'm a bit nervous" than sit there stiff for an hour. If you're taking her out to eat, don't spend the whole time on your phone or taking work calls. It's rude and it makes the evening feel transactional. Treat it like you're with someone you actually want to be with for the next few hours.

Don't get too drunk. A drink or two is fine. Slurring and stumbling is not. She's not there to look after you, and it can get uncomfortable for her. Same goes for being pushy. We've already matched you with someone who's okay with what you asked for. If you wanted something specific you should have told us when you booked. Springing new stuff on her in the room is not okay. Stick to what was agreed. If you're not sure what's okay, ask us before the booking, not her in the moment.

Payment happens when she gets there—cash or UPI, as we've told you when you booked. Have it ready. Don't make her ask twice or act like you've forgotten. Once that's done you can both stop thinking about it and get on with the evening.

Most first-timers worry that they'll do something wrong or that she'll judge them. In reality she's done this before. She's not keeping score. She's there to make the evening work. So relax. If something feels off, you can always tell us afterwards. But most of the time it goes fine when the basics are in place: she can get in, the place is okay, you're not wasted, and you talk to her like a person. That's really it.